Erection in older children is a normal physiological state. There is no reason to panic. They talk to boys about all the intricacies of growing up. Discussing intimate topics between mothers and sons is not recommended. This leads to embarrassment on both sides and the development of psychological trauma in the child. Early signs of sexual arousal are not related to puberty, and their appearance may be the result of normal or developed pathology.
first signs of puberty
Not all parents, especially mothers, know that a boy's penis will rise at a few years. Typically, the process begins between the ages of 11 and 12, but there are slight deviations.
The first thing teens notice is penis enlargement.
Then add:
- uncontrolled erections;
- night discharge;
- sexual attraction to girls;
- Erotic dreams and other signs.
Adulthood lasts about 5 years. Testosterone is a male hormone that enters the bloodstream and causes changes in a teen's personality and appearance. The change in behavior is not surprising. Hormonal changes often make young people aggressive and short-tempered.
The final formation of the reproductive system occurs at age 18, although many boys have their first sexual intercourse much earlier. On average, this happens at 13-16 years old.
Teen erections lead to a desire to experience life's first pleasure, so most teens masturbate.
Parents get confused after catching kids for obscene activity - they read morals, laugh at kids. You can't do this, you could destroy the relationship and cause serious psychological damage to the person.
How can a young man change?
Moms and dads often wonder why their children's behavior changes, and often not for the better. This guy makes scandals, runs away from home, shuts himself up.
Parents suspect their son is drugged, linked to a bad company. Frequent interrogation will not lead to good relationships and will irritate growing children.
You can identify growth by hair growth:
- chest and face;
- armpit;
- in the genital area.
During hormonal adjustment, the voice thickens and the sex organs grow.
Naturally, boys won't reveal their mother's penis; adult males will be able to notice the change.
During growth, sperm begin to accumulate in the testicles. It can already lead to conception. Before this opportunity presents itself, boys must be aware of the nuances and consequences of unwanted pregnancy.
An adult man, preferably a father, should keep young people up to date. If this is not possible, the person researches the information on their own - in books, magazines, the Internet.
You have to be careful with the latter. A growing person will definitely want to watch an intimate video. The plot of the picture is different. By focusing on a specific video, a person can fundamentally change his perspective on adult life.
Involuntary ejaculation
Teen erections are often accompanied by erotic dreams. A sufficient amount of sperm accumulates in the testes and it comes out. The first wet dream freaks out the guys. They fear criticism from their parents, and they feel guilty about soiled sheets.
The parents noticed that the son had removed the bedding himself and loaded it into the washing machine. Parents should not ask unnecessary questions that would put the person in an awkward position. If an intimate topic hasn't opened up, it's time for dad to take a moment to explain the situation. It's important to know what age boys get up so they don't miss out on important changes.
Young people often don't remember their dreams and don't understand why they ejaculate. Some people think it's pathological.
Nocturnal emission in boys is a normal physiological state in which sexual tension is relieved. Excessive accumulation of sperm can cause discomfort. When a man is not sexually active, the body empties the testicles on its own.
This happens in adulthood, but unlike a teenager, an adult understands what happened to him and doesn't feel embarrassed.
This is filled with:
- Emergence of guilt in adolescents;
- psychological discomfort;
- loss of prestige;
- hostile relationship.
Young people will definitely appreciate the lack of interest in the appearance of erections and involuntary ejaculation.
Advice for parents
You have to accept the fact of growing up. This is a natural process that must begin. During this difficult time, be euphemistic and friendly, as one wrong word can damage a relationship with bloodline in the long run.
Moms and Dads Shouldn't Blame Their Sons:
- Uncontrolled erection and ejaculation;
- read private magazines;
- Mood swings.
Find a teenager who is masturbating and you need to keep silent, pretend nothing happened and give the kid a chance to clean up on his own. You also don't need to focus on yourself. Doctors don't have a single view on this issue. From a physiological point of view, some people consider testicular emptying to be normal, while others consider it unethical and unacceptable.
Parents will not be able to influence the process, and if the teen wants to do it, he will always find a chance to retire.
Morality should be instilled from an early age, and growing up will be seen as an invasion of personal space.
early erection
Growing signs in boys under 6-8 confuse parents. They sometimes appear in children in the first year of life. Usually you don't have to worry. That will happen.
Harmless reasons include:
- tight underwear or uncomfortable diapers;
- bladder overflow;
- mechanical shock.
This is:
- Congenital malformations of the genitourinary system.
- Inflammatory processes in the bowel, bladder, testes.
- pests.
- Central nervous system diseases.
- loop problem.
- Foreskin and other infections.
The diagnosis is usually made during an initial examination by a pediatrician. Less commonly, ultrasonography of the genitourinary system, passing smears, blood tests, etc. are required.
Treatment is selected based on test results. In most cases, babies need antibiotics, physical therapy, and other things.
Solitary action is prohibited. Hot and cold compresses can seriously harm children, and medication can distort clinical symptoms and prevent rapid diagnosis.
"How old is the penis? " - This question is asked by many parents who are concerned about whether all is well for their son's health. Adult men who are dissatisfied with their penis size have similar problems - they want to stop growing until old age, mostly by following certain rules.
What is the reality: how old does the penis grow, why does the organ stop growing, what determines the size of the adult male penis and how to enlarge it? We will now give answers to these questions.
developmental stages of children
- The first stage, inside the palace. The penis and scrotum form in the 16th week of the fetus, when the sex of the unborn baby can already be determined.
- The second stage, before puberty. Before puberty begins, boys have underdeveloped genitalia (infancy, ie, children's). In infants, the penis measures only 1. 5-2. 5 cm, the glans is not visible, and the foreskin is narrowed (childhood phimosis). The further growth of the penis is proportional to the growth of the boy.
- The third stage, puberty. As puberty begins (it happens in different ways for different men - at 12-15 years old), the growth of the reproductive organs becomes more intense. Enlarged testicles, enlarged penis. Every three years, the organ grows by an average of 3-4 cm. Growth is accompanied by other signs of puberty - the formation of Adam's apple, the interruption of the voice, and the appearance of hair on the face and body.
During the first three years (up to about 15-18 years old), the penis enlarges significantly. In addition, the growth rate of the penis is slowed (the largest penis increases by 1 cm per year), and the penis usually reaches its maximum thickness and length by the age of 19-21.
If the teen is underperforming
What if a young man who has already started puberty doesn't have the expected penis growth? Don't panic, the truth is that everyone changes at different times. If there are no symptoms of maturity before the age of 15-16 and the genitals are still in a baby state, then this is already a serious problem - a hormonal imbalance could be a possible cause of genital hypoplasia in the penis.
Another question - what size is considered normal? During puberty, don't panic about size - growth can be slow at first, and then within a year the penis can stretch 5-6 cm at a time. The following are considered minimum penis lengths for children and adolescents:
- 11 years old - 4-6 cm (boy height 142-148 cm);
- 14 years old - 6-9 cm (boy height 158-168 cm);
- 16 years old - 7-9 cm (boy height 165-172 cm);
- Age 20 - 9. 5-12cm (height 174cm).
From a medical point of view, an erect penis in a sexually mature male, which reaches 9 cm or more in size, is considered normal. The size is 3-9 cm and there is such a thing as a small penis. Smaller than 3 cm is an anatomical abnormality called a micropenis.
what affects length
What determines the size of a man's penis? First, genetics. The presence of various diseases in the physical development of boys also has a great influence. If a man suffers from a complex reproductive or endocrine disorder during childhood, this is likely to have a negative impact on the genitals. So, for example, when testosterone is 60% deficient, the intensity of penis growth is reduced.
Another important factor in penis development is lifestyle. For example, nutrition affects - for the normal structure of the body, a sufficient amount of building materials is required. Among products suitable for the developing boy's body, nuts (walnuts, almonds, pistachios), herbs (parsley, dill, cumin), garlic, asparagus, pomegranate, figs, dairy products, beef are particularly useful.
Parents should carefully monitor their son for bad habits: If a teen starts drinking and smoking before puberty is complete, his physical development will slow.
What about adults?
Men's penis does not grow naturally after puberty (ages 18-21). The only problem is that some people have stunted reproductive systems that can end maturation as early as age 25—a rare but still happening. If there is no delay, the fact that the penis will grow a little longer after the age of twenty is not worth counting on.
It is true that there are artificial penis enlargement methods for men who cannot accept the dignified length. These measures are necessary in cases of complete desperation, after all each of these methods has its own contraindications and side effects.
Among the most common methods of penis enlargement in adult men, it is worth noting that:
- Hormonal drugs for penis growth (so-called growth hormone).
- Use an extender (an orthopaedic tool used to stretch soft tissue). Add 1-2 cm.
- The implant is installed in the corpus cavernosum.
- Ligatotomy is an operation to enlarge the penis by reducing the perineum.
- The vacuum degree increases. The penis is inserted into the cylinder and air is expelled from the other end of the cylinder by suction.
- Saline injection. A change in size is observed only for a few months, after which the salt solution gradually dissolves
It is worth noting that the procedures listed are very unpleasant, as men's intimate areas are very sensitive. All of these methods are not recommended for cosmetic purposes, but when there is a medical indication for penis enlargement (eg, in the case of a small penis, when normal sex is not possible).
If you still want to increase your masculinity, then you can try special sprays and ointments whose ingredients have a stimulating effect. The penis visually appears to be several centimeters larger due to increased blood flow and the resulting swelling. The effects you get from these funds are short-term—usually a few hours.